Life!

30 12 2010

Another dawn, another day, another year, another decade!  Life is just moving on with ups and downs .. I have learnt so many things in my life.. I have seen unforgettable incidents .. and I have been through situations which were totally unexpected! 🙂

I haven’t made any resolution not even one since these many years.. I have just learnt as days passed by..

Some instances, which really made me think twice about life I came across, would like to share this with you all while I continue to learn things in my life !

  • While I was expecting an acknowledgement from the dear one I adore, I came to know that they are in the same situation waiting for other’s response, i.e., priority differs no matter how much you like, so I have learnt minimum and/or nil expectations will always make me feel happy when I actually get it! 🙂

 

  • I was on my way from Tirupaty to Hyderabad and I was lost in my thoughts because I was thinking about a decent job with much better pay!  I came across a situation where everyone of us might have come across at least once in our life.  But I still don’t know why I can never forget this.  There was this person (I can only think is a beggar by his attire) somewhere around 28 years was so hungry I believe was having food in between the heavy rush on the platform instead of sitting aside and having.   While I watched him I just thought why can’t he sit in a corner.  The train moved and I saw him getting up and he has no left hand and a left leg! I cannot exactly explain how it touched me, but it was like splashing water on my face! It’s hard for me to complain about my pay now because life can be worst at it’s best!

 

  • I have realized the value of love and smile!! I did! This is one life which has the ability to *smile*.  I spread it often coz I know it’s contagious 🙂 The value of love can only be known when it is shown!  Be it parents, God, Friends, Colleagues or anyone I might know or don’t know, though at times I get carried away with my mood swings but most of the times I try and understand their situation rather than mine.  Who doesn’t want to be loved?  I do!  When I know I can share why should I care to hide? I love the nature, love my bike, love the moon and the sun, and yes most importantly I love myself and him 🙂 One need not show their love and care separately for whom they do not know.  But definitely if the care and love is shown to the one whom you are interacting with that it self is fine coz as I said when one receives love they are happy and when one is happy they smile and when they pass on the smile it can travel miles 🙂

 

  • Being materialistic is necessary.  If one is not calculative in the journey of life things might go out of control.  However, that does not hold the top most position in life!  There are other things which money can’t buy and which everyone knows.  I have lost 15000 rupees this year which is almost a month’s salary for me.  It was huge for me! It was a back up!  I realized at 2.30am that I forgot my purse in the cafeteria.  That 15000 was something I had to pay to the banks the next day for my loans.  I called up my Dad and informed him what I have done and couldn’t stop crying.  Ohh did I tell you that in my family my dad is the only one who actually goes by calculations?  But that night when I called him instead of scolding me for being reckless he just said “let it go, tell me if you need money to pay your loans I will give you tomorrow”.  He was not harsh and he didn’t bother about money that much at that time. I didn’t had the necessity to take his help coz as I said it was a back up!  But that night his words made me realize that one proper reaction of us can make the other person feel relieved and elated.  Had it been the other way round, calling him at that point of time and informing him would only made me feel worse!

The reason I have shared some points are, often we do not realize the gift of being “human”, we cry for what is out of reach, and ignore the one which is in front of us.  If we can just change the view and think in a different aspect, life can be really beautiful though unpredictable!

Another dawn, another day, another year, another decade!  Life will still move on .. and I am ready to embrace it and do the best I can while I continue with my journey 🙂

Happy New Year Friends !! Keep Smiling!!

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12 responses

30 12 2010
Harsh

My My My ..!!! … Someone is talking philosophy … 😛 😛 😛 …

Now let us analyse ur blog point by point …

>> Life is all about priorities … This question of what came first has been haunting human beings for long … However , recent studies have favored the argument that it indeed was hen that came before egg …

>> Obviously we should be thankful for what we have got … Seeing the more privileged ones and complaining to God isn;t going to help you in any way … Just try seeing the other side of the coin … Once you stop believing that “The grass is greener on the other side” the very day you will stop complaining …

>> Yess your smile is contagious … and about your bike … can’t imagine you riding a bike .. I mean .. seriously … lol 😛 😛 😛 … And about mood swings … can’t empathize with you more 🙂
>> And that’s why I call you Dumb … 15k is a huge amount … I mean I am not sympathizing with the bank people that they didn’t receive there payment as scheduled (P.S. I know that you love PNB guyz 😛 😛 😛 ) … but seriously … could have bought a smartphone … could have bought two labrador pups … could have bought some brain ( :O :O … jst kidding) … 😛 😛 … be careful the next time around … be a spendthrift … but spend it nonetheless … instead of burning the same .. 😛 😛 ..

So here is a full length analysis of your post .. feel free to contact me in case of any discrepancy .. though I won’t get back to you … So ur choice in the end .. sayonaaraa .. 😉

30 12 2010
Latha

Oh dear!! I think I can save this page and view it forever!! Lucky ain’t I to receive such a huge comment in spite of your busy schedule 😛 thank you thank you for all the analyzing skills Mr. Intellect 😀

Love ya.. keep smiling and visiting 😛 😛

30 12 2010
Shadab

What a philosophy ma’am.
U should get NOBEL AWARD for this.

Happy new year………. 🙂

30 12 2010
Latha

Hey Shaddy.. Happy new year once again.. Really should I?? Recommend me then 😛 😛

5 01 2011
| Fairy Princess |

Its much difficult to understand life, But one may try … and ur effort successful because I know you have been brave for all what comes to ur life, you have faced it boldly.. and u are always a source for me to lighten up when I am down with weight of worries and blue moods to deal with – U have always came up… with ur not just comforting words but trouble tackling suggestions

My best friend once told me ” If I can understand myself – it means understood the whole world.”
I wish you all the best for New year
Cheers to Life

5 01 2011
Latha

I wish you too all the best my dear 🙂 Brave or not I don’t know Preeti.. I jus follow wht my heart says.. and believe hez always with me 🙂

30 01 2011
venki

nice words di……smile is really contagious…but life is a bit difficult to understand coz always happiness n sorrow exist together 🙂

21 08 2011
Latha

totally agree 🙂

19 02 2012
Vishnu Gopa Kumar

Same happend with me…What a coincidence…:O

iam mentioning dat money issue k….But indeed dat was a great learning 🙂

19 02 2012
Latha

Did you also lose 15k ?? :/

20 02 2012
Vishnu Gopa Kumar

not 15 k,,quite more dan dat 😦

20 02 2012
Latha

Ohh.. I know how it feels 😦

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